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Feng Shui for Fertility and Conceiving

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In feng shui, everything in your home relates to how energy flows throughout your life.

The more you can optimize the energy flow in your home, the more smoothly your life will flow.

Your home is an energetic representative of your inner self.

So when you’re struggling with something, your home will reflect that.

If things are going well in your life, your home will reflect that too.

This means the more harmonious the energy in your home is, the more harmonious the energy in your body and life will be, and the easier it will be to attract the things you want into your life.

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How to Improve Fertility with Feng Shui

One of the easiest ways to improve the energy flow in your home is to clean it up.

Decluttering and cleaning are essential for good feng shui because they remove energetic blocks.

A cluttered, messy, or dirty home causes stagnant energy.

Stagnant energy is stuck energy.

It causes stress, frustration, unease, and can even cause arguments and relationship strife.

All of which you don’t want if you’re trying to conceive!

4 Feng Shui Steps to Improve Fertility and Create Better Energy Flow:

  • Declutter: Clean out any old or unused items from your home. This includes things like clothing, books, furniture, old artwork, and anything you have a negative attachment to.
  • Remove or repair broken items. In feng shui, broken items “break” the energy flow.
  • Finish home improvement projects and home repairs. These cause stress and drain energy.
  • Fix leaks. Leaks are draining energy (and good fortune!) Even the tiny drip in the kitchen sink is an energetic drain.

It can feel overwhelming if you have a lot of these things going on in your home.

But if you want to improve fertility, start in the bedroom first.

This will create positive energy and momentum, and it will be easier to then move on through the rest of the house.

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How to Feng Shui Your Bedroom for Fertility

In feng shui, your bedroom directly affects your romantic relationship as well as your health and well-being.

Ideally, the bedroom should be used only for rest, relaxation, and romance.

Of course, that isn’t always possible these days, but you can still set up your bedroom for good feng shui.

Here are a few feng shui bedroom tips for enhancing fertility:

The bed should be in the command position.

The command position means you can see the door from your bed, but you aren’t directly across from the door.

There should also be a solid wall behind your bed, and ideally, enough room for you and your partner to walk on both sides of the bed.

The command position helps you to fully rest at night and also be in “command” of your space.

While you’re at it, make sure your bed has a headboard.

Headboards (especially wood ones) represent stability and support.

Use soft, calming earth tones with pops of color.

Earth element colors are grounding and stabilizing colors.

The earth is what all life is built upon, so using earth tones in your bedroom can help you create a solid foundation for your relationship and your fertility.

Earth tones like browns, peaches, deep yellows, beiges, and even some peaches are the best bet.

These colors will help your bedroom feel nurturing and supportive.

The following colors can be used as accent colors to activate your bedroom for conception:

Green: Green is the color of growth and new beginnings. It also represents the wood element, which is associated with fertility and vitality.

Pink: Pink represents love and romance. Try using pink sheets to increase intimacy between you and your partner.

Red: Red is the color of passion and activation. It’s often used as a feng shui cure to speed up energy and attract good fortune. With red, a little goes a long way, so try a couple of throw pillows on the bed.

Add plants or fresh flowers.

Plants not only purify the air and the energy, but they also activate the wood element (growth and new beginnings) and the earth element (grounding and stability.)

Fresh flowers attract positive energy and happiness, and they can make your bedroom feel like a spa retreat. This post has more information about the best feng shui plants for the bedroom.

Avoid mirrors directly across from the bed.

Mirrors bounce energy, which can disrupt deep sleep. If you can’t move the mirror, try covering it while you sleep so your body can fully relax.

See this post for more information about mirrors and feng shui: How to Use Mirrors in Feng Shui (Do’s & Don’ts for Feng Shui Mirror Placement)

Decorate in pairs.

Pairs of lamps, side tables, statues, or other decor items in the bedroom represent a strong, healthy relationship.

You could also add a pair of feng shui mandarin ducks, which represent a strong and happy marriage.

Add a feng shui fertility symbol.

Dragon and Phoenix: The dragon and phoenix are powerful symbols of fertility and are often used in feng shui to enhance fertility luck. Hanging dragon and phoenix artwork in the bedroom promotes a harmonious relationship and increases your chances of conceiving.

Elephant: The elephant is a symbol of strength and fertility. Place a pair of feng shui elephant figurines in the bedroom to enhance your fertility luck.

Peony: The peony is a symbol of love and fertility. Hang a painting or picture of peonies in the bedroom to promote a loving and fertile atmosphere.

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Feng Shui for Fertility: Other Areas of Your Home

The Bagua Map and Fertility

The feng shui bagua map is the energetic map of your home. It shows you which areas of your home correlate to the different areas of your life. (For an image of the feng shui bagua map and how to use it, see this post: What is the Feng Shui Bagua Map? The ULTIMATE guide for applying it to your home!)

Aside from your bedroom, the areas of your home that relate to fertility are:

The Family and Legacy Area

The family and legacy area represents relationships, harmony, and communication within the family. It also represents the legacy you leave behind when you leave the earth, which includes children.

The Children and Creativity Area

The children and creativity area represents fertility, creativity, and joy. It also represents bringing projects to completion. Add artwork or decor to this area that represents the child you want to conceive in order to activate it and attract positive energy.

The Love and Relationships Area

The love and relationship area is connected to love, romance, and relationships. Enhancing this area with earthy colors, crystals, and symbols of love and romance can help support fertility.

The Kitchen

The kitchen is considered the heart of the home and is a center of health and wealth, which can have an impact on fertility. Make sure it is clean, organized, and clutter-free. Avoid storing sharp objects or knives in plain sight, as this can create negative energy.

The Front Door

The front door is extremely important in feng shui, because it’s how positive energy (Chi energy) enters your home and starts to circulate.

To feng shui your front door for fertility, you can add pink or red flowers near your front door, hang a new wreath or decor on your front door, or even add a few crystals near your front door to activate it.

And it never hurts to completely refresh your front door to attract new blessings and new beginnings.

See this post for more information: how to feng shui your front door to attract new opportunities and good fortune!

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Using the Five Elements of Feng Shui for Fertility and Conception

The five elements of Feng Shui (Water, Wood, Fire, Earth, and Metal) can also be used to enhance fertility. Here are some of the best ways to use the elements:


The water element represents the flow of life and can be used to attract blessings and new beginnings. You can use a small fountain or a fish tank in your home’s entryway to enhance the flow of energy and attract good fortune.


The wood element represents growth and vitality. You can use plants in the bedroom to create a healthy, relaxing room. You can also add a few plants to your home’s family and legacy area to activate it and help grow your family.


The fire element represents passion and energy, and can be used to stimulate fertility. You can use candles in the bedroom to create a warm, inviting atmosphere and increase the flow of energy. You can also add a couple of candles to your home’s love and relationship area to activate it and enhance passion and romance.


The earth element represents stability, grounding, and creating a strong foundation of health and well-being. You can use crystals for grounding in your home’s health area to attract stability in health and happiness for everyone in your home (including you and your partner!) You can also add a plant to the health area to attract growth and new beginnings.


The metal element represents strength and clarity. The metal element is also associated with the children and creativity area, as well as the travel and helpful people area. You can add metal elements to the children and creativity area to activate it and support expanding your family. You can add metal to your travel and helpful people area to attract help from supportive people like doctors, nurses, and fertility specialists if you need them. You can also create a helpful people box to attract experts who will help you along your fertility journey.

As you can see, there are many ways to feng shui to increase fertility!

You don’t have to incorporate all of the tips at once in order for them to be effective.

Instead, start with decluttering, cleaning, and organizing your bedroom.

Then start adding one or two more ideas every few weeks.

Whichever tip speaks to you the most is where you should start!

Your intuition knows what you need, and you can’t get it wrong!

Every time you use feng shui in your home you will receive a response from the Universe.

Believe it will happen for you and it will!

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