Rose quartz is one of the most well-known crystals for attracting love.
It ranges in color from soft, pale pink to darker, deep rose-pink or lavender – all colors associated with love, feminine energy, romance, and kindness.
Whether you’ve worked with rose quartz crystals in the past or are just getting started on your crystal journey, this post will explain everything you need to know about how to use rose quartz for love!
What are the healing properties of rose quartz?
Rose quartz is best known for the following energetic properties and frequencies:
It’s known as the stone of unconditional love, helping harmonize and bring balance to all of the relationships in your life.
It balances the heart chakra, helping heal emotional wounds, remove emotional blocks, and open your heart to all forms of love.
It can soothe stressful situations by removing toxic emotions and encouraging peace and compassion for yourself and others.
It helps with healing a broken heart and moving on to a new romantic relationship.
It is associated with Venus, the goddess of love, enhancing feminine energy (Yin energy) which is receptive, balancing energy.
While dark pink is associated with fire energy, the pastel quality of rose quartz represents balance and harmony, the Yin and Yang (give and take) of all relationships.
How to Use Rose Quartz for Love (16 Different Ways!)
There are so many different ways to use rose quartz for attracting love energy into your life.
You can use any of these methods to attract new love, boost self-love and emotional healing, or increase romantic feelings in your current relationship.
In fact, every relationship in your life will benefit from the positive energy of rose quartz!
Choose whichever method resonates with you the most and use it for your specific situation.
Place rose quartz stone in your bedroom:
In feng shui, the bedroom is the room most associated with rest and romance.
It is responsible for your physical health, but also the health of your romantic relationship.
Placing rose quartz in your bedroom will enhance those vibes, filling your room with peaceful love energy.
Keeping rose quartz here can help you attract a new romance, increase self-love and compassion, and enhance romantic feelings within your current relationship too!
Place rose quartz in your home’s feng shui love and relationship corner.
Like the bedroom, your home’s love and relationship corner is associated with love energy in your home that radiates out into your life.
While the bedroom is associated with your romantic partner, your love and relationship corner is associated with ALL relationships in your life.
If you are struggling with friendships, coworkers, family members, or if someone else in your household is struggling with these things, placing rose quartz in this area can help.
For more info, check this post: Energizing your home’s love and relationship area.
Keep a piece of rose quartz on your work desk.
Keeping a piece of rose quartz on your desk while you work can help harmonize work relationships.
It can also soothe stressful energy while you’re working and help you love your job!
If you are struggling with calling in love, keeping rose quartz on the love area of your desk can help remove blocks in your energy, balancing the heart center and opening you up to receiving love.
If you are really working on calling in love, keeping rose quartz around you in all of the different areas of your life can reset your energy and help you recalibrate.
Wear rose quartz:
Speaking of recalibrating your energy, wearing a rose quartz bracelet, rose quartz necklace, or keeping a small piece of rose quartz in your pocket can also help!
The key is to use the rose quartz as a touchstone, to remind you to feel the feelings of having the love you want.
Whenever you think about it, touch your rose quartz and feel the feelings of having what you want.
If your romantic partner were to call or text you right this second and say exactly what you want, how would that feel?
Feel those feelings throughout the day to become a vibrational match to what you want.
Meditate with rose quartz:
You can also use rose quartz while you meditate to increase your vibration and align with attracting love.
Hold a piece of rose quartz in your hand, or place a piece of rose quartz over your heart to help calibrate your energy.
While meditating, imagine a white light emanating from the rose quartz, enveloping your entire being and magnetizing love to you.
You can also imagine the light from your heart chakra passing up and down through all of your chakras, removing blocks and healing all areas of your life.
Create a crystal grid with rose quartz:
A crystal grid using rose quartz can help concentrate its vibrations and call in what you want.
Whether it’s a future partner, soulmate, self-love, or a better relationship with your current partner, creating a crystal grid can help set the intention.
Write your intention on a slip of paper and place it under the grid or under the main piece of rose quartz at the center to call in that energy.
Some crystals that go well with rose quartz are other pink crystals like pink opal, rhodochrosite, and Mangano calcite. Clear quartz, tiger’s eye, and amazonite also work well with rose quartz!
Create crystal water with rose quartz:
You can use rose quartz to create crystal water, charged with love energy and vibrations!
Drinking crystal water can help align your energy with love, but you can also use it for other things, like washing your front door or watering your plants.
Spread the love energy around and watch it grow throughout your life!
Creating your own gem water or elixir is easy: you can set a piece of rose quartz next to your water, or even buy special water bottles that hold pieces of rose quartz.
Create a rose quartz love spray:
You can create a rose quartz love spray to cleanse energy throughout your home, office, or even your aura.
Using rose quartz in a smudge spray will remove energetic blocks anywhere you spray it.
To create a rose quartz love spray, you can combine ingredients like essential oils (rose, geranium, or orange essential oils work well here), dried rose petals or lavender, and small rose quartz gemstone chips in a spray bottle.
You can also add small pieces of smoky quartz and clear quartz to clear blocks and amplify the love energy!
Use the spray to cleanse the energy anywhere you feel stuck!
Place rose quartz by your front door:
In feng shui, your front door is how good fortune, new opportunities, and fresh energy enter your home.
Your front door is the “mouth of Chi” and it’s how the Universe sends you what you want!
Placing rose quartz by your front door will call in more love and abundance.
It’s especially helpful if you are calling in new love relationships or friendships, a new job you love, or even just more love energy in general.
Check out this post: how to feng shui your front door for more info!
Create a love altar:
A love altar is a sacred space in your home, meant to reflect and honor love.
Create a love altar in your home’s love area, in your bedroom’s love area, or even in the entryway of your home to welcome love energy and ask her to stay awhile!
Use rose quartz and other crystals, print out pictures of love relationships you admire, keep love artwork here, and even light candles here to increase love energy.
Use your altar as a way to honor love and feel gratitude for the love in your life!
Perform a full moon ritual with rose quartz:
Performing a full moon ritual is a powerful way to charge your rose quartz with your intentions and desires.
There are many ways to perform a full moon ritual, but here’s a simple one:
- Write down your intention on a slip of paper, feeling the feelings of what you want coming to you.
- During the full moon, set a piece of rose quartz on top of the paper and place them both in the moonlight. (You can put them directly outside under the moon, or use your windowsill if it will be in the moonlight.)
- Remove the rose quartz the next day and place it somewhere in your home that reflects your intention. You can keep the piece of paper under the rose quartz, burn it to release it to the Universe, or even bury it in a potted plant to grow love vibes! It is done!
Be sure to check the feng shui bagua map to find out which areas of your home relate to the different areas of your life!
Place rose quartz on top of your manifestation journal:
If you use a manifestation journal, placing rose quartz on top of it can charge it and activate it with love vibes!
You can also keep rose quartz near you while you journal to increase your alignment and call in love.
Write a letter to your future partner:
Another way to use rose quartz in manifestation is to write a letter to your (current or future) partner.
This is a scripting method that can help you call in the romantic partner or increase romance in your current relationship.
Write a letter to your partner, describing your relationship as if it’s already happened.
Describe all of the things that you love about your partner, how you met them, or anything else you love about them!
Once you’re done, place a piece of rose quartz on top of your letter to charge and activate it!
Create a love vision board:
You can create a love vision board that reflects everything you want in a partner.
Place images on your board that reflect the feelings you want in your relationship, places you want to travel with your partner, children you want to have: anything that reflects how you’d like your relationship to be.
Place rose quartz near your vision board to charge it and activate it!
Keep your vision board in your home’s love corner or in your bedroom’s love corner to increase love vibes even more!
Place rose quartz in or near your plants to grow love:
You can either buy a plant specifically for your intention or use one you already have, but placing rose quartz near your plants can help grow love vibes and attract love!
Plants absorb the energy of the rose quartz and help spread them out throughout your space, growing love!
Rose quartz is generally safe to get wet, but if you don’t want to place rose quartz in the plant pot, setting rose quartz next to it will do the same thing.
This post has more info: how to use crystals for plants!
Use rose quartz in a self-love bath:
A key to attracting love into your life is to be able to receive love.
Often when we’ve gone through heartbreak or other traumas, we can be blocked emotionally, which can block attracting the love we want into our lives.
Using rose quartz in a self-love bath can help clear those blocks and help you feel gratitude for yourself and everything you’ve been through.
Place rose quartz around the bath to charge the water.
Feel the feelings of love entering your life: how does it feel to be loved?
Send loving feelings to yourself and everyone else in your life.
Thank yourself for loving yourself enough to protect yourself from being hurt (whether knowingly or unknowingly!)
You can use essential oils and/or bath salts to help cleanse your aura, releasing everything that has blocked you.
When you drain the water from the bath, imagine all of those things going down the drain.
How to Use Rose Quartz for Love: 3 Steps
Using rose quartz for attracting love or enhancing love vibes only requires three steps:
Once you’ve decided which method you want to use to attract love, it’s time to program your rose quartz!
Cleansing your rose quartz stone will clear its vibration and reset it to its original frequencies.
It also removes any other programming if you’ve used it before.
You can cleanse rose quartz with smudging, sound, or other cleansing methods.
This post has more info: how to cleanse crystals
To program your rose quartz to hold your intention:
- Touch or hold the piece of rose quartz.
- Repeat your intention to yourself, feeling the feelings of having what you want.
- Take a few deep breaths, imagining the rose quartz absorbing the energy of your intention.
- It is done! Your rose quartz is now programmed to hold your intention.
Use your rose quartz with any of the above methods to help call love into your life!
How to Use Rose Quartz to Attract Love: Q & A
How long does it take rose quartz to work?
Rose quartz inherently already has the pure love vibrations you need to enhance your chosen manifestation method, so it will work for you immediately.
Whether your love manifestation comes quickly, however, depends on how open you are to receiving it!
Which crystals pair well with rose quartz?
Use these crystals along with rose quartz to boost and ground your energy and align your vibration:
- Clear quartz: the master healer – it clears blocks and will amplify your intentions
- Pink opal: a love stone for universal love, compassion, and healing
- Amazonite: to help you speak the truth of your heart
- Smoky quartz: to clear blocks, and ground and center your energy
- Moonstone: for hope and insight
- Amethyst: for connection and inspiration
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